Thank you Lynda. I know you are as well. I am older now, so there will be no further relationships for me, other than family — and that suits me.

I can’t say the same for you. I look at my childhood and later years. I know why I kept choosing these men — albeit this is different in that he has ADS as opposed to being just a nasty man. Unfortunately, I was already in this relationship when I understood what drove me to choose emotioanlyy unavailabe men. I learned this during theapry. Things would be different for me if I was younger; I am hoping you can find healthy love. Sending love.